Oh my God! What a freaking story, and to be referred to locally (maybe nationally, for what I know) as "The Great Crash," jeez! So glad you are evidently making it through.
About this driver, to me, the issue of the slapped-wrist fine is less significant than his lack of remorse. The fine is indicative of determined fault. I don't know how it is down under, but here in the U.S., any half-decent attorney would turn that into a very sizable settlement or court decision, enough so that perhaps Carlo could no longer afford a Ferrari. I know the money probably won't put your body back to original condition, but it could give Carlo a different kind of remorse.
Richard L.