Peter, just been thinking, were you talking about the banjo or the banjo bolt when you referred to B31 / A1O? They may be the same, I’m not sure.
But from your photo it looks like you have a tapered bolt against a flat banjo. So, back to basics – you have a twin banjo, flat one side, tapered the other? Before fitting, check bolt is a reasonable fit in the banjo taper. Then assemble with flat side of banjo against head, with fibre washer in between. If bolt does not go right home, then it needs shortening.