Dump the ultrasonic bath. Or let your wife clean her jewellery with it. You need something that works.
Go to a paint store that knows their trade and get a litre of Methyl Ethyl Ketone. It is a solvent.
(not Methyl Ethyl Ketone Peroxide...) that is the catalyst used in fibreglassing.
Beware, use acid resistant gloves when using this stuff.
Whilst not an acid, it will strip all the oils out of your hand and has been linked to causing cancer . (But then, so is gasoline).
Just treat it carefully.
I have just had a set of Keihin carbs ultrasonic cleaned for a Honda I am restoring and all the "shellac" remained in the float bowls.
I tried Turpentine, Acetone and whatever other solvents I had , but when I used the MEK, Wow.
All I had to do was swish it around the bowl for 30 seconds, discard that and rinse again with the MEK and it was brand new !!!
I would hazard a guess that it would be less than sympathetic on neoprene o-rings and such but have not tested it.
This is not third hand information... It really works !