Mate, re: the seats, I don't think I'm mistaken in saying that Klaus has raced his A10 with standard seats. So unless your seats are heavily recessed you should be fine.
I haven't noticed any posts on this forum complaining about lead-free valve seat problems. Anyway you can get a lead additive for your fuel if you're worried about it.
You CAN check your ratios without valves, simple to make thin plywood or plastic discs to glue onto the valve seats to seal them for measuring. Sure it needs a reassembly of your motor, but that's just good practise anyway. Hahahah!
Surely there must be good engineering expertise in your part of the world to help check/fix your motor as Swarfcut says. Nothing here is super difficult to refurbish, its just head stuff.
What they do if valve-seats are beyond 'salvation' is they set the head up on a lathe or Milling machine and cut out the old seats, not nice because the valveseat steel is VERY hard, so hard to cut.
Once the seat is cut out a new seat needs to be made to very close tolerances, and shrunk into the head. Bit of skilled work there but nothing 'super difficult'
So why don't you get the other head sent over to you? then you have 2 to work with?